I have to honestly admit that after reading Shannon's post, I was a bit jealous. We have had no one who has tried to understand our world and take on the responsibilities. Well, I should clarify. I did leave Bekah with my sister (who is a nurse) in charge at my parents house (my husband was there but was napping) while my other sister and I went shopping for about an hour. My mother-in-law has taken an interest and took the girls and David for "grandma camp" one day this past summer. My husband and I were able to go out to lunch sans kids, it was very nice. My parents are working on getting brave enough to take her and so is my father-in-law. It is a HUGE responsibility so I am not hurt by their tentativeness. I would just love to go on a date night with my husband with no worries about D. I do know that in an extreme emergency, there is a family that I could turn to that also has a daughter with T1D who was dx 5+ years ago and has used a Ping (insulin pump). I began to pray that God would bring me just the right person to come along side and offer to help out so Jason and I could have a date night. It is awkward to ask because most people don't like to tell you no and I wouldn't want anyone who is not comfortable trying to take on the responsibility of caring for my daughter. My prayer was specifically that they would offer...
Today, after I had given Bekah her bolus for her hot lunch, David and I walked her purse with her meter, back down to her classroom for her. Her teacher and I chatted for a bit about an upcoming field trip. Then out of the blue she said, " this has been on my heart and if you don't mind, I'd like to offer you some respite care. It's probably hard for you and your husband to get a date night and I know how to take care of Bekah and would be happy to have her and David over some evening" I think my jaw dropped to the floor. This is the woman that I trust with Bekah's care for 6 hrs a day 5 days a week. I can't think of a better person, plus Bekah has a relationship with her. That is huge in Bekah's world. She does not like meeting or being around adults that she doesn't know well. (For the first 4+ years of her life, I don't think my sisters had heard her talk). I told Mrs. M that Jason and I hadn't been on a real date for over a year and she immediately told me to plan something for around Valentine's Day.
I'm so excited!! I get to go out on a date with the hottest guy I know! ;) Woohoo!!
Thursday, January 27, 2011
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How incredibly awesome is that!!! Enjoy your date night...you guys deserve it!!!
ReplyDeleteYeah! I am seriously cheering for you. We are blessed to have my mother a nurse and my mother-in-law (who knows d care because of my husband having t1d). So...enjoy. I can't wait to hear how the big date night goes!
ReplyDeleteThat's awesome!! I'm Glad for you!!
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful for you! I hope you have an amazing night out with your man!
ReplyDeleteWooHoo!!!!! I love it when God answers a wish just to see us happy :)
ReplyDeleteI'm SO happy for you!! What a blessing! Hug her neck for me, would you?
ReplyDeleteWow that's fabulous I am so happy for you and jealous all at the same time. It is so hard to find people to "babysitt" for us, I don't know when my husband and I went out together last, years ago. Have a great date you lucky gal you :)
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